Posts Tagged ‘emotional’

Are You Responsible For Your Aging Parents Loneliness?

Thursday, August 19th, 2010

My parents were married for 62 years. They had a good marriage and made a good life for me and my sister. Mom was very dependent on my father to do most all things around the house. She was not very mechanical or resourceful when it came to problem solving. Mom always had a rocky relationship with my older sister. So when my father died two years ago, I knew that my role with my mother was about to change. So now after raising two children, both in their twenties and living independently, I WORRY ABOUT MOM BEING ALONE. I feel sad for my mother. I want so much to relieve the pain she feels from loneliness.  I feel so blessed that I have a loving wife of 28 years and two great kids. But, what do I do about Mom? I live about 500 miles away, and try to call her every day. I encourage her to continue and reach out to others, and generally she does quite well socially. However, no one can replace the lifelong companionship my father provided Mom. You know, even after working as a psychologist for over 37 years, knowing that I can’t take anyone’s pain away, I still want to do more for my wonderful mom. Anyone got some solutions for the good doctor?

Looking forward to hearing from you,

Dr. Mikol Davis

What Aging Parents don’t know about HOTEL KEY CARDS

Tuesday, March 9th, 2010

HOTEL KEY CARDS

Ever wonder what is on your magnetic key card?

Answer:
a. Customer’s name
b. Customer’s partial home address
c. Hotel room number
d. Check-in date and out dates
e. Customer’s credit card number and expiration date!

When you turn them in to the front desk your personal information is there for any employee to access by simply scanning the card in the hotel scanner. An employee can take a hand full of cards home and using a scanning device, access the information onto a l aptop computer and go shopping at your expense.

Simply put, hotels do not erase the information on these cards until an employee reissues the card to the next hotel guest. At that time, the new guest’s information is electronically ‘overwritten’ on the card and the previous guest’s information is erased in the overwriting process.

But until the card is rewritten for the next guest, it usually is kept in a drawer at the front desk with YOUR INFORMATION ON IT!

The bottom line is: Keep the cards, take them home with you, or destroy them. NEVER leave them behind in the room or room wastebasket, and NEVER turn them into the front desk when you check out of a room. They will not charge you for the card (it’s illegal) and you’ll be sure you are not leaving a lot of valuable personal information on it that could be easily lifted off with any simple scanning device card reader.

For the same reason, if you arrive at the airport and d iscover you still have the card key in your pocket, do not toss it in an airport trash basket. Take it home and destroy it by cutting it up, especially through the electronic information strip!

If you have a small magnet, pass it across the magnetic strip several times. Then try it in the door, it will not work. It erases everything on the card.

Information courtesy of: Metropolitan Police Service.

PLEASE FORWARD to friends and family

This is pretty good info. Never even thought about key cards containing anything other than an access code for the room!

Romance can bloom at any age

Friday, February 19th, 2010

The latest article on the challenges of aging and the universal need for companionship
By Carolyn Rosenblatt
Special to Marinscope Newspapers

Inundated with marketing about Valentine’s Day events, I noticed a glaring lack of silver hair in all the pictures of happy couples. Valentine’s Day, like most commentary about romance, was clearly not made with seniors in mind. Our culture seems to entirely dismiss the concept that older people, divorced or widowed, might fall in love again. But they do…….

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Romance can bloom at any age“>

AgingParents.com Newest Book

Wednesday, September 16th, 2009

Please check out the latest new book from Carolyn Rosenblatt.
The book provides very practical legal, medical, and emotional tips and suggestions for cargivers that are now caring for their aging parents and loved ones.